There are lots of ups and downs in my life... and one of them is to know that my son Memen is sick.... he has thalasemia.. a GENETIC blood disorder.... but there are people who bluntly said that it was my Karma because of my sin.... herrrmmm.. who are they to judge me that way???
When a GENETIC sickness happened.. didn't we have to blame our previous genes??... that is perhaps the father or the mother or the grandparents??... and these so-called people mcm x sedar jer... Memen is part of their gene as well... so.. they are to be blame too rite??..huh!.. hukum karma konon.... ngko tuh buddhist ker??? dok percaya hukum karma???
Apapun.. sebagai seorang Muslim.. aku terima semuanya dengan penuh keredhaan.. ALLAH tidak akan menguji makhlukNya andainya makhluk itu tiada kudrat untuk menghadapinya. ALLAH tahu aku kuat dan tabah untuk melalui dugaan dan ujianNya... aku bersyukur kerana dipilih melalui ujianNya... Alhamdulillah.. ia mendekatkan aku kepadaNya....
Whatever it is.. to those people yg ckp aku nih wicked.... look! Aku cuma menegakkan apa yg benar... kalau ngko perlu nak benci aku sbb melakukan Amal Makruf Nahi Munkar.. then nasib lah... x perlu lah aku nak panjangkan apa kebendanya yg berlaku tuh.. karang x pasal2... perang sabil lagi!!!... bukan aku nak cakap aku nih baik sangat.. yes.. aku juga pernah jahat dan pernah melakukan dosa... tapi dosa aku dengan ALLAH dan kepadaNya aku memohon keampunan.
The most important thing is.. who we are at the end of our life.... and itu yang sedang aku lakukan.. untuk menjadi insan yang mulia dan sentiasa mendapat rahmat ALLAH di akhir hidup ku....
Kalau ngkau nak terus jadi setan.. it's up to you!!!!!!!! aku x campur..faham!!!!!!!!!!!
Dan mungkin telah ditakdirkan aku dgn ngkau akan perang sabil dan kemudian putus hubungan supaya aku x terus jadi setan mcm ngkau!!!!... Alhamdulillah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sian kat memen..a sympathy from me..sabar ye k.ann,jgn dilayan mulut orang..mana boleh tutup..lainla mulut tempayan...cheers kak..
ReplyDeleteThanks so much dear...
ReplyDeleteDear Ann,
ReplyDeleteI hope Memen's physician has explained to you in detail about thalassaemia. 1 in 20 people in msia carry the thalasaemia gene. If both parents are carriers of the gene, there is 1 chance in 4 that your child will have the disease, the major one i.e. needing blood transfusion. Kalau tidak, cuma 1 in 2 in becoming a carrier meaning takde symptoms langsung, i presume macam you and your ex.
It's not hukum karma, pedulikan apa orang nak kata, they are ignorant. Since kat mesia ni, thalassaemia is quite common, sebab tu our govt encourage people to go have their bood tested before berkahwin. Have faith, tha. can be better managed today. Insyallah...scientists are looking for a cure every day. maybe you should contact persatuan tha. msia for support.
Cik Kiah